Whether your child is struggling to find the other pair of socks or is struggling with a specific subject at school, being a good problem solver is one of the best skills they can attain to help them manage their life well. Basic problem-solving skills start when children are young so it is important for parents to acknowledge how to get this done. In life, kids will face a variety of problems ranging from difficulties when it comes to their academics to problems between friends. Those who struggle to solve issues well, end up avoiding taking action and the issue itself. This is why many children may end up falling behind or struggling to maintain friendships. These impulsive choices can lead to bigger problems in the future which is why it is vital that they understand how to resolve problems quickly. Here are some tips on how to help your child become a better problem solver.
Helping Your Child Become A Better Problem Solver:
Start by helping them understand how to identify the problem. The problem being said out loud can make all the difference to children who are feeling as though they are in a rut. You can help them state the problem by saying something such as ‘if it makes you uncomfortable, you don’t have to do it.’ A problem can seem a lot bigger before it is said out loud.
Help them understand how to find different solutions. Brainstorming is a great way to solve a problem. Remind your child that not every idea they have has to be a good one, it is about developing a solution even if they’re struggling to come up with ideas. Something that sounds silly to them could initially become a possible solution. The key is to help them see that they have the potential to come up with different solutions. Once they have come up with a list, help them identify positive and negative consequences for each solution written down.
Try and practice problem solving as much as possible with your child. When problems arise, don’t try and solve your child’s problems for them. Instead, work together so that they have the guidance they need to be able to figure it out on their own one day. This will help them become a lot more independent.
Allow your child to face natural consequences. This may be a great way to teach them problem-solving skills. Consider these moments as beneficial and work together to help your child become a better problem solver.
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