What To Do If Your Child Doesn’t Enjoy School

There are a lot of reasons why your child might not want to go to school or begins to show a general disinterest in studying. From low moods, a drop in grades, or reports from teachers, parents can be worried about how their child will fare if it continues. In this guide a nursery from Harpenden has put together, we look at what to do if your child has stopped looking forward to school. 

What To Do If Your Child Doesn’t Enjoy School

Ask Them What Makes Them Not Enjoy School:

Get to the bottom of it as quickly as you’re able to. If your child is suddenly not enjoying school, there’s a high chance that something’s upset them, someone may be causing a problem for them or they’re struggling. Sit down with them and see if they’re honest with you about what’s going on – it can be a myriad of reasons, so be patient with them as they open up to you. 

The most common reasons for children to stop enjoying school usually are:

  • Being bullied
  • A new area in a subject they’re studying has become really difficult
  • They received a bad grade or report from a recent exam or mock exam
  • They’ve fallen out with a friend at school

Talk To Your Child’s Teachers:

If you’re failing to get the answer out of your child straight away, you can always go straight to the source and speak to your child’s teachers. They’ll be able to give you an honest view of what could be worrying your child and how you can work to help them out at home.

If it’s study-related then you can ask your child’s teachers about what revision or further studying aids you can bring into the home. If it’s more related to friendships or the potential of bullying happening in the classroom, then it’s a matter you could raise with the headteacher or head of the department.

Don’t Become Angry If Your Child Refuses To Go To School:

Like we do as adults when going to work, some days we just don’t want to go in and face the day. Children can also feel this way, especially if tensions are high while you try and find out what’s making them upset. 

Avoid raising your voice or appearing annoyed if your child doesn’t want to go to school. If they’re being stubborn, then allow them the time off to think things through and see if they’ll be able to attend school the next day. Remind them that this won’t be a regular thing and they will have to return to school at some point, but show leniency if you’re finding it difficult to get through to your child.



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